How to Develop an Attractive Personality - 7 Personality Enhancing & Development Tips

How to Develop an Attractive Personality

Have you ever noticed how some people just walk into a room and light up the place and have you always wanted to be like these people.

So in this article i'm going to give you seven sure short  and super easy techniques to be this new person so let's get going.

How to be this attractive and magnetic personality you know when you go onto the internet you'll find a gazillion tips on this topic but today in this article i'm going to give you my own secret tried and tested very very easy and surefire techniques to be this person.

At number one is conversation ratio listening is this magnetic and strange thing like a creative force and the friend who listens to us is the one that we are drawn towards so the perfect   conversation ratio is 75 listening and 25 speaking and also when someone is talking to you cultivate the art of active listening so like nodding your head and going like wow yeah amazing really superb.

So when you're listening to them they get really talking to you and try to connect something that they told you the last time, for example hey betty how's your father doing now also avoid the me too syndrome.

You know when somebody talks to us we have a tendency to say hey that happened to me too   but it's not about you it's about them and always maintain kind eyes and a warm appreciative smile and you're going to see people attracted to you like a magnet.

At number 2 is icebreaker jokes famous actor jim carrey once said that i become more attractive when i laugh at myself.

Now no friendly conversation is complete without some leg pulling and laughing and a person becomes truly charismatic when they can confidently laugh at themselves it shows that they are comfortable in their own skin and it kind of relaxes the group immediately they see the more human side of you and warm up to you instantly. So have a good laugh at yourself

At number three is name card, you know in the egyptian mythology ra the sun god had to walk through the darkness every night and fend off these monsters and the only reason why the monsters couldn't attack him was because he knew their true names and this idea of the true names giving you power.

Also is seen in some sci-fi movies and the same theme runs through the german fairy tale of rumpelstiltskin.

So knowing somebody's name is like having some power over them so when you're talking to somebody use their name frequently like, hey jack how have you been haven't seen you in a while.

Now don't crazily overdo it and the big mistake here is to fumble and say hey perch make sure you remember their name and you use it frequently.

At number four is the secret strategy now should i tell you the secret strategy or not only on one condition if you promise not to tell   anyone okay deal come closer in his book influence the psychology of persevation 

robert cialdini  talks about the scarcity principle he says that when something is scarce or it's in shortage, people find it attractive now for a person we call it the secret strategy which means that if you tell somebody a secret they kind of think that you trust them and in turn they trust you back.

So if you want this close circle of friends make sure that you tell them a little secret about yourself and they're gonna like you that much more and trust you also a little more and feel closer to you but make sure that you're telling them your own secret.

At number five is roots of interest now have you ever met a person who can bore you to death   by talking about the same topic over and over again yeah me too.

Now a charismatic person is one who can talk fluently on a wide range of topics so the key here is to develop passion and interest in different topics while being sensitive to others and respecting their own maybe preferences   thoughts and opinions and also when you show interest in something they're passionate about  they're certainly going to get attracted towards you.

At number six is magnet of friends now if you   have this home of friends and build this great relationship with people by socializing often it'll be a great source of confidence for you.

But it's important to be genuinely kind caring helpful and appreciative of people people actually like you not only for who you are but for how you make them feel and if you make them feel good then you will be this perfect magnet for all your friends.

At number seven the art of saying no i know how difficult it is to get out of bed on a weekend especially after you've had a really tiring week but what's more difficult is to say no to this over excited friend for a group meetup it's kind of this fine balance between being a likable and a rude person.

But a charismatic and confident person is one who can say no politely and yet firmly. So you could say sorry i don't think i'll be able to do this today for some opportunity that you may not be able to fully oblige or no thanks i don't think i need this today to a pushy salesperson or you can say thank you but i think i'll give it a miss or i'm afraid i have another commitment for an unwanted invitation and if you say all of this with a smile you will sound like a firm and confident person without sounding arrogant.

So i hope these seven techniques are going to help you become this charismatic magnetic attractive and super confident person and in the meantime don't forget to Comment And Share This Article With Your Friends And Keep Following Us.